In the last several months, I've been focused on teaching my kids several key
Godly character traits. We don't go over them every day, but I try to review the ones that we're struggling with a few times a week. After breakfast, in the car, during a conflict, at dinner, whenever.
The original definitions seemed a little above their heads, so I came up with some kid-friendly versions that they can actually apply to their lives. Take a look; I welcome any additional, simplistic input that you might have!
Disclaimer: Please ignore the grammatical errors! I try to keep the explanations to my kids short and understandable at their ages.Orderly
Big kid definition - Arranged or disposed in some order or patter; governed by law, well behaved.
Little kid definition - Keeping things neat; being well-behaved.
Attentive
Big kid definition - Mindful, observant; heedful of the comfort of others.
Little kid definition - Being aware of the people and things around you.
Teachable
Big kid definition - Capable of being taught; apt and willing to learn.
Little kid definition - Willing to learn.
Obedient
Big kid definition - Submissive to the restraint or the command of authority; willing to obey.
Little kid definition - Doing what you're told, right away, without being reminded.
Respectful
Big kid definition - An act of giving particular attention; high or special regard; esteem.
Little kid definition - Treating someone as more important than yourself.
Honest
Big kid definition - A fairness and straightforwardness of conduct; adherence to the facts.
Little kid definition - Telling the truth.
Forgiving
Big kid definition - To grant relief from payment; to pardon.
Little kid definition - (My kids know what this means, but I can't neatly sum it up...any ideas...???)
Peacemaker
Big kid definition - One who promotes harmony in personal relations.
Little kid definition - Having a good attitude; no complaining or arguing.
Courageous
Big kid definition - Mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear or difficulty; brave.
Little kid definition - Being brave.
Discerning
Big kid definition - Showing insight and understanding.
Little kid definition - Trying to understand all different situations.
Content
Big kid definition - Feeling or showing satisfaction with one's possessions, status or situation.
Little kid definition - Being happy with what you have.
Servant-hearted
Big kid definition - Someone that works for someone else.
Little kid definition - Wanting to do things for others with a happy heart.
Thankful
Big kid definition - Expressive of thanks; well pleased; glad.
Little kid definition - Being happy with what you've been given.
Self Control
Big kid definition - Control of your feelings and behavior.
Little kid definition - Being calm, even when you feel excited, frustrated, angry or tired.
Loving
Big kid definition - Having affection or warm regard; tender.
Little kid definition - Showing others that you care about them.
Humble
Big kid definition - If you show humility, you are not too proud, and you recognize your own faults.
Little kid definition - Not bragging about what you're good at; knowing that you're not better than everyone else.
Prayerful
Big kid definition - Devout, earnest, sincere.
Little kid definition - Turning to God in prayer when things are good and bad.
Modest
Big kid definition - People who are modest are not boastful about their abilities, possessions or achievements.
Little kid definition - Not telling others how great you are; dressing without showing a lot of skin.
Joyful
Big kid definition - Happiness and delight in your heart that comes only from Jesus.
Little kid definition - Having a happy heart, no matter what happens.
Generous
Big kid definition - People who are generous are happy to use their time and money to help others.
Little kid definition - Giving money or time to help others.
Responsible
Big kid definition - Trustworthy, accountable; having or involving important duties.
Little kid definition - Doing the right thing whether or not someone tells you to.
Compassionate
Big kid definition - A feeling of sympathy for and a desire to help someone who is suffering.
Little kid definition - Showing others that you are sad that they are hurting.
Kind
Big kid definition - Friendly, helpful and generous.
Little kid definition - Being nice to others.
Patient
Big kid definition - Bearing pains or trials calmly or without complaint.
Little kid definition - Waiting without asking questions or complaining.
Diligent
Big kid definition - Characterized by steady, earnest and energetic effort.
Little kid definition - Trying your best; working hard at everything you do.
Faithful
Big kid definition - Loyal and trustworthy.
Little kid definition - Loving someone even when they make bad choices.